It's worth clarifying there's more than romance
There’s a person, a dream, a vision, inspiration.
And there’s a problem: none of that is worth anything by itself.
You also need the adult stuff.
The strength to execute, the discipline to stay consistent,
the stability to keep going when it’s boring,
and the money and mental energy to make it all real.
Doing something by your own vision has a price —
time, focus, sanity.
Love alone isn’t enough.
A thirteen-year-old has love too — for the girl who smiled at him —
and it costs nothing.
Love isn’t a tool; it’s a reason.
But the path toward it isn’t free, isn’t easy,
and won’t be realized through romantic dreams of success.
There’s a gap between what you imagine and what your hands can actually build.
Bridging it takes years — and those years are made of work,
mistakes, self-doubt, and repetition that looks like failure until it doesn’t.
Romance fades fast when reality starts charging interest.
At some point you have to become your own antagonist —
the one who tells you what to do, how, and when,
if you want even the slightest chance of turning the vision into reality.
And remember: life isn’t about victories.
It’s a sequence of defeats —
that only stop mattering when you finally start learning from them.